Love is meant to be reciprocal and we all want to know if the people we love also love us as much as we love them.
Body language is a type of non-verbal communication in which physical behaviors are used to express or convey information. These include posture, gestures, facial expressions, and lots more.
I will be revealing to you signs and body languages that shows that someone is into you, be it male or female.
Being able to read body language and some signs can make you know a lot about the status of your relationship with someone.
For example, in your mind it could be going really great with the person you are with, but for them things might be a little off (I’m sure you get me).
These signs that are listed below will reveal if someone is really interested in you.
… Emphatic Eye Contact: As the saying goes “Eyes don’t lie”. That’s very true my dear.
When someone is really interested in you, he or she tends to have this “over-exaggerated kind of stare” when you are in a conversation with them or at other times.
Like every time you look up, that person is already locking eyes with you.
The look shows that the person really appreciates you being with him or her. So, he or she wants to enjoy the moments he or she is spending with you.
In female cases, it goes a little bit differently with eye contact. They tend to show it but it’s that “I am trying not to let him know I am staring at him stare”. So if you see this sign that is a very good sign that the person is into you.
… Mindful Posture: They always want you to meet them in the right posture. For example, he may be sitting or standing in an awkward manner, and now that you walk in, he readjusted his posture.
This is very true because male always wants to be at their best when they see anyone they are interested in you. So watch out for this sign.
… The Way Their Feet Are Pointed: I know you will be surprised about this just as I am also surprised but it is true.
Studies show that the way someone feet are pointed during conversation whether when they are standing or sitting shows if they are interested in you.
This is the FACT, when a person’s feet is pointed directly to you, it means they are comfortable with you and they totally agree with you.
This could also show that the person is interested in the person that is talking. If you are doubting check this out.
You are only going to face your body or face to someone that interests you, so also is the feet. So if you are seated with someone you think like you, just smartly look at their feet ( don’t make it look awkward.)
….They try to make you laugh: Have you ever seen a guy or girl cracks a joke and specifically look at you to make you sure you are laughing whether you are in a group or you guys are alone. When you see this, this might be a sign that he or she has a crush on you.
This shows that the person is not really bothered if other people are laughing and that is why he or she has to “cross-check” if their crush is laughing.
Guys tend to show this all the time, so ladies watch out for this sign.
…The Way He Walks With You: This sign will most likely occur after you have already met your crush or you have been friends for a while.
This is specifically a sign the ladies should look out for. When you are walking together, does he tend to stay in front of you, beside or at the back.
Now take NOTE, if he is always in front of you when you guys are walking, that is a bad sign. This shows that he might care about himself more than he does about you.
If he is behind you he may be interested in you or if you don’t know him he might be stalking you.
But on the good side, if he is always walking beside you and maintaining the same pace with you that surely shows he is really interested in you.
… Attention: He or she will always try in any possible ways to make you notice his presence and get your attention.
She may intentionally raise her voice, making wide gestures, or start doing awkward things.
Most ladies do this when they try to get a guy’s attention. They might completely ignore if you are around them but she starts to act differently in your presence.
For example, when you come in she may be lousy with her friends, but immediately you walk in she becomes calm and most of the time some may even ignore you.
This is a sign that she is interested in you but she is a shy type and doesn’t know how to relate with you.
… Defensive Stance: This happens to both gender especially the jealous one. They show defensive stance when you talk to other opposite sex.
You might even be surprised he or she might question what you are discussing with the person. If you turn down the question at first and he or she still remains adamant to know what you are discussing, then he or she is definitely interested in you.
…Mirroring your Actions: Mirroring is when we copy or adopt the body language of the person we are with. When you see him or her copying what you are doing then you should know the person is into you.
For instance, when you start playing with something the other person starts doing the same thing. This is a subconscious way we use to try to attune with someone else.
…Stealing of your Words: He or she starts using the same words or exact phrases you are using. If it is a guy he may try to match your tone.
…Delicate Touch: Delicate touch like he may caress your hair, slightly touch your arms, and so on. This is a way a guy gets to express desire for you.